Monday, March 16, 2009

How to Dump the Person with Whom You Date

Compatibility and understanding are two very important things in a relationship. If you are not happy with the person you are dating then it would be better for you to dump them. You do not have to do it in an inhuman manner.

Here, we will give you some brilliant tips to dump the person whom you date without hurting their feelings and emotions.

1. Do not rush into things

If you are not happy in your relationship then do not rush into things. Take everything as it comes. If you want a break-up then think about this matter with a cool head. Talk to your partner about this matter then only take your decision.

2. Do not delay

Breaking up is never easy for any one. You may be leaving someone you care about and dreamt big dreams with. The short term pain of a break-up is much better the years of suffering in an unsatisfying relationship. So, if you are convinced that you will never be happy with this person, do not delay in breaking -up.

3. Do it is person

If you think that your relationship would never to successful then it would be better for you to have a break-up. But you should always break this sad new to your partner in person. Never behave in a cowardly manner by just sending an email or a telephone call.

4. Break-up at your partner's place

If you have to break-up with your partner then it would be better to do this at their place.

5. Be very honest

Be very honest to yourself as well as your partner. A relationship rarely fails because someone's done something wrong. It is because the two of you are not compatible enough to work it out. Explain as much as you can about your feelings without making the other person feel inferior. Never try to blame the other person for the failure of the relationship.

6. Discuss it with your partner

Listen to your partner's side of story before you break-up with them. It is human nature to want closure, so do not expect them to shrug and accept the news without an explanation, especially if it has come very suddenly.

7. Do not blame yourself

Do not blame your self for the break-up because it had to happen one day or the other. If a relationship is not working properly then it will surely have a destructive end.

8. Do not ask your partner to be your friend

Do not end the conversation by asking your ex to be your friend. It feels like a demotion, even if you started out as friends initially. Let them make the decision about whether or not to be friends.

These are some excellent tips to dump the person you date in a polite manner.

1 comment:

cameronsharpe said...

A heart breaking isn't always as loud as a bomb exploding. Sometimes it can be as quiet as a feather falling. And the most painful thing is, no one really hears it, except you..

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