Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Do's and Don'ts of a First Date

First dating experience is a very wonderful experience for any couple. Every body wants this moment to be very special and exciting. For a very good first date experience one has to be very conscious about their looks, manners and attitude.

Now let us discuss some important do's and don'ts of a first date experience.


1. Always be on time
The very first thing that every individual should keep in mind is that they should never ever be late for their first date. This will give a bad impression to their dating partners.

2. Be very nice to your date
Another thing that one should follow is they should be very nice and polite to their dating partners. Always try to make your partner comfortable and safe.

3. Take an active part in the conversation
You should take an active part in the conversation. Listen to what your partner says and ask them questions about their likes and dislikes. Do not be too boring or serious.

4. Do not insult or complain
If you are going on a date then try to adjust to all the things. Do not unnecessarily complain about each and every small thing.

5. Just be confident and be yourself
Confidence says a lot about a person. Being more confident will help you get through that first date with ease. Never try to pretend or be a show off.


1. Do not talk about your ex
If you want to succeed in a relationship then you should never talk too much about your ex. This will make your present partner feel hurt and frustrated.

2. Do not ask too many questions
In a first date it is not considered very polite to ask too many questions. If you both like each other then you will get plenty of time to ask questions.

3. Do not drink too much
It is not at all polite to be drunk when you are just having your first date. This gives your partner a very false impression about your character.

4. Do not form a judgment
If you have just experienced a first date then it is not right for you to make judgment about the character and attitude of your partner. Give them more time in order to understand them in a better way.

5. Do not ever dominate a conversation
Never try to dominate the conversation. Give your partner an equal opportunity to talk about their interests and hobbies.

These are some of the very important do's and don'ts that you should remember while going on a first date.

1 comment:

Elisha said...

I like your list and I hope the guys who approach me to date should get to read yours...just one additon that I want to add in your list in Do's - basis my experience so far , which is quite big now :)...I have been using .coms for dating for at least 3 years -

To be added - (For guys)
1. Do not be shy in approaching girl at all - if the girl is decent she will actually like that you are hesitating to approach her...coz this shows that you are quite aware of your own insult and respect...and girls like this...if you respect your self then you sure will respect her...

I dont know if you understand what I am trying to say ...lot of shy guys that I have been able to meet thorugh Bluepont have revealed to me that they would have not approached me had they not used Bluepont as I am quite good looking and they dont think they can ever get a girl like me ….hahaha….

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