Sunday, October 26, 2008

Tips to Know if a Relationship is Serious

People often engage in a relationship in order to find love and comfort. Some people believe in long term relationships while some are satisfied with short term love affairs. But it is often very difficult to know whether your partner is taking the relationship seriously or not. If you are taking your love relation very seriously then you should also find out whether your lover is doing the same thing or not.

Here we will provide you some very easy tips of knowing if your relationship is serious or not.

1. Your partner calls you without any reason
Your relationship is serious if your partner calls you without any rhyme or reason just to know what you are doing. If your partner calls you just to hear your voice and makes weird excuses for calling then they really love you and are extremely serious in the relationship with you.

2. Your partner's friends know all about you
A person tells about his relationship to their friends only if they are dam serious about someone. This is a very important sign of knowing whether your lover is taking the relationship seriously or not. If your partner tends to talk about you the whole time they are with their friends, then they really like you. They talk about your hobbies, about your features your likings and disliking.

3. They listen to every word you say
Your partner is very serious about you if they listen to every word you say with great attention. If your beloved really loves you then they will not dominate the conversation or interrupt you, they will just look at your face and will respond to you in a positive way. They will listen to you rather than indulging in talking.

4. Your partner will take interest in your hobbies and work
You can easily find out whether your partner is serious in the relationship or not. If they start taking interest in all your hobbies and work then they surely are interested in you. They will also help you in your professional work if you are facing any problems in it.

5. They will be nice and polite to your friends
Your relationship is really serious if your partner is interested in knowing about the people you hang out with or the people who are your friends. Your partner will be polite and nice to your friends. They will invite your friends and will make them comfortable. This is one of the most important sign that your partner is serious about you.

These are some very simple tips through which you can easily find out whether your lover seriously loves you or not.

12 comments:

Anthony said...

Tips are good but a little general. All relationships should be like this. The first one is the closest to what a real relationship should be. Always calling just to say w/e.

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arab said...

my gf thik that i have one more gf

arab said...

one girl has purpose and one month she talk with me very nicele after that she not call me after two days i calll her asked why u don't call she said that i don't want to talk with u a after five months she again call me i received her call were meeting eachother afer she told that bring at home ur engagement and her parents told that no afer that she talk with me for four days she left me talking after that she again contact with meafter one month than i told her that u r playing game with me than she told that i have another boyfrnd than she regular call me and told that i have left that boyfrnd and i want only u she told give me one chance than i have given her chance after that she talk with me for four months than again left talking with me after one year she again talk with me she told that i want u to marry but her mom says that don;tmarry with him but she told that i will marry with u only . i also in work in TAJ catring .after all this what i have to do give me the way.

sonu said...

hai main ek ladke se pyaar karti hun aur vo bhi mujhse pyaar karta hai and problem is that ki usne kaha hai agar unke papa ne haan ki to hi mujse shaadi karega nahi to nahi .

SHASHIKANT said...

mera naam shashi kant hai main ek momodund ladki se pyar karta hu n.par jab main use 1 saal se pyar karta hu jab maine usse pyar kiya tha to mujhe pata tha ki wo momdund hai .fhir bhi main use apni jaan se jyada pyar kata hu .par ajj maine usse sadi karne ke liye ke liye use bola to use apne maa baap ki ijat ke bare me sochne lagi.usne mujh se kaha ki wo apne carier aur maa baap se jayda kisi ko kuch nahi samajhti par mujhe lgta hai wo apne maa baap ki ijjat ki wajah se mujhe nahi chod rahi sayad wo kisi aur se pyar karti hai .sayad use muj se jyada amir ladka mil gaya hai tabhi to usne mujhe chodne ka faisla kar liya .main uske bare me soch kar so nahi pata aur pure din rota hu .plz tell me agar usne mujhe bhula diya waise main bhi use bhula du kyunki agar main aise h rota raha to main sayad uski wajah se ya to apni jindgi barbaad kar lunga ya kisi din suside kar lunga kunki mujhe ab apni okat par rona ata hai ki agar main jyada amir hota to wo ajj bhi mere paas hoti main use bahut pyar karta hu par wo mujhe bhul chuki hai,plz tell me sugesstion

rajiv said...

yaar tumhre bf yadi tumse pyarr karte hai to wo apne papa ko mana lega nahi karte to natak karge

HEAL said...

Ques: Agar aapse koi insan “I LOV YOU” kahe jis se aap pyar nahi karte, to aap uska bina dil dukhaye kya jawab doge?

Plz answer me.. as soon as possible..

MANISHA -FEEL THE MUSIC said...

hey love guru
hi.... i am in deep relatnshp with a guy from past 7 months now we are so much close to each other mentally as well as physically . nw the prblm is this he told his parents abt me but they refused n stop talking to him nw. he felt so much ashamed n feraed from his parents. Nw i am really cnfused whtehr he reallyw wants me in his life or not.plz help me wat shud i do????? plzzzzzzzzzzz

riburom said...

hi ther im in in relationship wit a guy he's a muslim n im a cristian. The 1st thing is tht we have been in tis relationship for the last 4 months earlier tis guy use too call me a lot as he was my fren later he started proposing me for which i accepted. Now the matter is that he's been changing a lot now after our 2 months of relationship now he hardly call n if he receives my miss call he doesnt even call back.I always have to call him n he finds a number of reasons not to meet me .I am really in love with him n always tried to b loyal to him i tell him everything thats going on in my life but he doesnt xcept work basis he screams at me wen im frenly with some other guys. He is older than me he's 28 but acts immature.And 2nd thing is we had a fight on this topic last week n since then he never called i had too called him back but still then he showed no interest in calling me back.I'm confuse now loving this guy was a big mistake but now i have truely love him so i dont knw shud i break up wit him as holding tis relationship lso is useless so shud i break up wit him im thinkin abt it can u help me please i'll b meeting him this monday the 1st of nov so can u give me a reply for my confusion please my frens says leave him he'll understand but my heart doesnt cuz i love him please help .THANK YOU

riburom said...

hi ther im in in relationship wit a guy he's a muslim n im a cristian. The 1st thing is tht we have been in tis relationship for the last 4 months earlier tis guy use too call me a lot as he was my fren later he started proposing me for which i accepted. Now the matter is that he's been changing a lot now after our 2 months of relationship now he hardly call n if he receives my miss call he doesnt even call back.I always have to call him n he finds a number of reasons not to meet me .I am really in love with him n always tried to b loyal to him i tell him everything thats going on in my life but he doesnt xcept work basis he screams at me wen im frenly with some other guys. He is older than me he's 28 but acts immature.And 2nd thing is we had a fight on this topic last week n since then he never called i had too called him back but still then he showed no interest in calling me back.I'm confuse now loving this guy was a big mistake but now i have truely love him so i dont knw shud i break up wit him as holding tis relationship lso is useless so shud i break up wit him im thinkin abt it can u help me please i'll b meeting him this monday the 1st of nov so can u give me a reply for my confusion please my frens says leave him he'll understand but my heart doesnt cuz i love him please help .THANK YOU

KUNAL said...

if my g.f is sitting with that boy even if i have told don't with that boy...and that boy try to uses every girl....plz plz help me out!!!!i can't live without her too.....!!!!

mir_salal72 said...

hey guru .. i have some problem .. i love a girl name noor. We both are studying in same school but she is in 10th Grade and I was 9th Grade. I fell love with her when i saw the first time and i didnt know what to do but one important thing was her little sis is studying in my class. So i told her little sis that i love ur elder sister noor. she said she will tell noor about me. Next day she came to me and said she has rejected ur proposal because she is saying that you're Junior and all that. Then i met her one day and I asked her that if u don't wanna be my gf but atleast she can be my friend. she said ok than we talk to each other everyday and one day i again proposed her and again she rejected because i'm junior and the other problem is she get bored everytime i talk to her i dont know why but one day i asked her why do you get bore everytime i talk to u she replied that u have to tell me about urself and all these days u told me about ur friends ............. Pls love guru reply me and tell me how to handle this problem ..

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